What to do when a girl cries? Well, this is the answer :
1. You put your arms around her and let her have a good cry. Once she is calms down you can ask her what the trouble is or if you already know then try to make her laugh. That's about it! It's nice of you to be that concerned though. Good for you!
But if that only makes things worst (if you bring up why she`s crying), then just don`t talk about it and try to cheer her up.
2.Give her a quote like this one "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." Let her know your there.
This post is about Why Girls Cry. For you guys you should know the reason~~~
A girl wont cry easily,
Except in front of the person who she love the most, she becomes weak.
A girl wont cry easily, only when she love you the most, she put down her ego.
Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of you, please hold her hands firmly, she's the one who would stay with you for the rest of your life.
Guys, if a girl cries bcoz of you, please don`t give her up, maybe bcoz of your decision, you ruin her life.
When she cries rite infront of you, When she cries bcoz of you, Look into her eyes, Can u see n feel the pain n hurt she's feeling? Think. Which other girl have cried wif pure sincerity, In front of you, And bcoz of you?
She cries not because she is weak, She cries not bcoz she wan sympathy or pity, She cries, Because crying silently is no longer possible, the pain,hurt,n agony have become too big a burden to be kept inside.
Guys, Think about it, If a girl cries her heart out to you, And all because of you, Its time to look back on wat u have done, Only you will know the answer to it.
Do consider it, Coz one day, It may be too late for regrets, It may be too late to say "im sorry".
To my friends... Ponder this message seriously. Don`t do this to a girl, You may regret for the rest of your life. Maybe in your life, she's the only one that love YOU the most. Remember this lesson..
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Almost every girl dreams of their perfect boyfriend. Though no one can be perfect, we can sure strive to be. In this guide, I will teach you some simple tips and tricks to become one step closer to being that perfect boyfriend.
1. Keep your word. Women believe this is one of the most important aspects of a man. Do what you say and say what you do. Don't lie about things. Let her love you for who you are, not for who you're not.
Things You'll Need:
A kind heart
Patience
Confidence
An open mind
2. Be a Gentlement! Open the door for her, hold her hand, pull her chair back for her, etc. Women love to be respected. Treat her with the same amount of respect as you would your older sister. Be careful with your words as well. People do not like to be forced to do anything. So don't try to control her as well.
3. Surprise her. Sending roses to her work place, prepare a surprise picnic, take her out but keep her eyes closed the entire trip, etc. Be creative. Women love to be surprised and be taken on an adventure. Be cautious with this, use this only in moderation. Too much of a good thing will get old.
4.Listen. Sometimes she will rant about her life and what not. Just sit there and listen. Sometimes she may not even ask for feedback. If she feels you're a good listener, she will only have more reasons to appreciate you. When she does ask for feedback, try your best to give quality feedback. Remember, a healthy relationship is one that allows both individuals to constantly grow.
5. Communicate. Talk to her about her interest as well as yours. Learn to say what you feel and help her understand you as well. Let her help you through your problems as well. This is a relationship and every relationship needs two people. These are opportunities to strengthen your relationship so don't pass them by!
6. Space. Everyone needs space. As I said, too much of a good thing is bad. Moderation. Do not spend every waking moment together. This is a one way ticket to "problemsville". Make her cherish your time together. If you guys constantly spend time together, you will both begin to take each other for granted. No one wants that.
7. Be willing to compromise. This is the most important part of any relationship. Learn to put away your pride. Do not run away from arguments. Arguments can be a good thing if you can be open minded. Every obstacle your relationship gets passed will only make it stronger.
8. Read her. Women will expect you to be able to understand what they feel without actually telling you how they feel. Pay close attention to her and her habits. Write it down if you must. This general pattern will help you understand her and allow you to fully benefit from this relationship. Make sure you bring these things up as suggestions or questions. Have her clarify these things to you and make sure you're right on your assumptions. If it's wrong, just drop it.
9. Maintain a life. Remember, you still have a life. She is an important aspect of your life, but she is not your life. Don't forget to maintain family, friendships, jobs and any other important aspects of your life. Make time for her but don't forget about everything else. Relationships may not last forever so do not forget about the people that have always been there for you to begin with.
10. Be yourself. Don't try to be somebody you're not because at the end of the day, if they love you they will love you for who you are.
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With just a few simple tips, you can be the perfect girlfriend - making him want to be the perfect boyfriend. Learn with VideoJug how to do all you need to, to be come the perfect girlfriend and look after your little caveman.
Step 1: Relax your standards
The perfect girlfriend is not a plastic doll. While you should endeavour to maintain your femininity, once in a while let your guard down: eat like a pig, slouch around, or leave the washing up. You can even surprise him be getting him to pull your finger. This way he will feel comfortable in your presence, and you in his.
Step 2: But make an effort
With this in mind, remember that it is important to make an effort and sometimes dress up special. We know it's not practical all the time, but he'll appreciate it, and you'll feel more attractive.
Step 3: Massage his ego
Remember that the male ego is as fragile as it was all those years ago when he first lost his way back to the cave. Make your boyfriend feel good about himself - even if he is getting in your way- let him be useful and tell him he's great. Don't nag him into submission, as there is nothing sexy about a downtrodden man. You know the bed's not made properly, but congratulate him on having a go. You know that isn't an omelette, but it contains eggs doesn't it? So well done him!
Step 4: Feed him
Like it or not, the old adage is true - the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. You don't have to cook, but keep your local takeaway on speed dial. Remember if your boyfriend is hungry, his attention will shift suddenly from you to the fridge. Don't take it personally, it's primal. Symptoms of hunger to look out for include: grumpiness, slightly flared nostrils or he may appear to be hunting. If he gets like this, don't suggest salad.
Step 5: Give him space
A man's friends are important to him, and so is his ability to spend time with them, where he will do male activities like growling, fighting and measuring things, simple pursuits that confuse a complex female mind. Allow him the space to maintain these relationships. Let him roam, and when he comes home he'll be ready to spend quality time with you.
Step 6: Listen to him
Men enjoy explaining things. Be it the mechanics of bridges, why Sean Connery's the best Bond, or the complexities of the offside rule, even if he's being patronising allow him his airtime, and he will then shut up, leaving you to enjoy the peace and quiet of a loving and giving relationship.
Step 7: In the bedroom
When it comes to bedtime and matters of the night, your needs may be different. Sex is a simple matter for him: he wants it, whenever, wherever. Never put out if you aren't in the mood, but do accept he always will be, and don't tell him off because he finds you devastatingly attractive all of the time. And if you really don't fancy it, just distract him with beer.
In long-term relationships, it's easy to settle into a routine with your partner that, while may be comfortable, can make your sex life a tad mundane. However, by shaking it up and using these sex tips, you can revive the spark that first brought you two together. Here are a few ideas to consider.
Sex Tip 1: Keep it pretty
First things first, it's impossible to have great sex if you don't feel sexy, so treat yourself to a blowout or some new lingerie, whatever is needed to put the "va-va-voom" back into your step.
Sex Tip 2: Flirt with each other
Make a habit of sending playful, sexy messages to him throughout the day. Make him salivate with anticipation by telling him what you're wearing and what you want to do to him later.
Sex Tip 3: Set the mood
Don't underestimate the power of lighting a few candles. Make sure your bedroom is sexy and doesn't have toys littering it. And turn off the tv!
Sex Tip 4: Just kiss
Agree to place a ban on sex for a certain length of time and just kiss and focus on foreplay. Abstaining from sex has the added benefit of charging up both of your libidos.
Sex Tip 5: Surprise Him
Don't wear any underwear and let him find out.
Sex Tip 6: Watch an Erotic Film Together
It doesn't have to be porn for it to be sexy. Some favorites: Body Heat, Belle du Jour, Last Tango in Paris, Like Water for Chocolate.
Sex Tip 7: Play an adult game
Check out Game night for couples and Games that lovers play for some naughty suggestions.
Sex Tip 8: Discover a new position
There are over 60 different positions in the Kama Sutra, so there's no excuse to not try a new one at least once a week!
Sex Tip 9: Share your fantasies
A little role-playing can be fun and it doesn't have to be limited to the bedroom. Start the fun before you even get home by meeting at a bar and pretending you just met.
Sex Tip 10: Get out of the bedroom
Sometimes a change of locale is all that's needed to rev up the action. Try having sex somewhere unexpected; just be careful not to get caught!
If any of the ideas makes you feel nervous, then you should definitely try it first. The great part of being with someone for an extended period of time is that you can fully trust and feel safe with him, so don't hesitate to try something out of your normal comfort zone, especially if it means revving your sex life up!
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